I really, really, wasn't expecting it to turn out this way...
I wasn't all that excited about it, but I wasn't planning for all my friends to
kind of clump into their own little groups, have their own fun, stick together
yet everyone was still apart, as well as my friend from another school, who
didn't know anyone, actually hung out with everyone so naturally... she enjoyed
her time with everyone way more than me. Plus I kinda got neglected...
Not only that, I was wearing my new heels that I got the other day- which
unfortunately, my mother picked a size too small for that I didn't notice at
first (hey, if you only take a couple steps around the store, you're not going
to notice if it'll hurt a lot...) so I was really struggling to keep up with
everyone, and ended up walking behind them a short distance away. I had told
them that I wouldn't be able to walk very quickly...
Next thing I knew, I got home- with the skin ripped off my little toes, blisters
on my feet, and in immense pain; inside and out. Then I glanced at the door and
read a note, saying: "your sister and I followed your dad to work, so we're
going shopping, and we'll be back at 10pm. -Mother" There wasn't even
anyone to greet me or welcome me back...
I blindly walked upstairs, dropped my bags, and before I realized what I was
doing, I was on my knees, crying my heart out on the bathroom floor. I couldn't
believe that I was so alone, even during my own b-day gathering, and that I had
no idea that I would end up like this at the end of the day...
Then my dad calls, and tells me what the note said, and before he hung up, asked
how my day went. I said 'bad...' but he just replies 'oh, see you later.' and
hangs up. Which didn't exactly make me feel any better...
No one's home still. And I'm still sighing at how today turned out.
Hmmm I suppose one of the really bad ones was when I had an exam. My present was
kind of half shoved at me, and half of the people ignored the fact it was my
birthday. And it was an exam day lol.
Another bad birthday... well the day itself wasn't bad, but I found out a week
later that 2 of my friends had kept something away from me
Hmmm I guess usually the day isn't that bad until the end of the day when I
think about it. This year, half of the people asked me what was so special about
the day, and I had to actually tell them it was my birthday. I've also had many
promises made to me about my birthday, like how people would remember it and
celebrate it and stuff like that- but none of that ever happens.
Regardless, I've learnt to just ignore these things- the birthday is just
another day- special in the respect that you grow another year older as that was
the day you entered the world, but when you think about it, the other days of
the year are equally, if not more important than the birthday: you celebrate
being alive every day of your life. So every day is a birthday- sort of
I hope you feel better! Don't worry, maybe your parents have a big surprise for
you ^_^
If a bad birthday is considered as a 2 minute 4 person gathering a year, (which
i just consider a small dessert), then i pretty much have those bad birthdays
every year. Do i need to explain?
Once, I had to take care of my family because everyone was terribly sick but me.
I spent the whole day trying to help them feel better and the rest of the day
sulking over it. Then, when they felt better... to take me out to eat for my
birthday... my grandfather didn't couldn't eat the food I wanted to eat... so we
went where he wanted to go. Petty I know, but it still made me upset.
Honestly, I don't celebrate my birthday anymore. I haven't celebrated a birthday
in years or any hollidays either. I'm just not into gatherings, I'd much prefer
just to be left alone on those kind of days....
I think birthdays are over-rated ; Seldom do
they go as planned, as you said. I find it more enjoyable to just sit around
with a few close friends and have a nice slow day ^_- Anyone else with
me?
merged: 07-04-2007 ~ 02:28am
I think birthdays are over-rated ; Seldom do
they go as planned, as you said. I find it more enjoyable to just sit around
with a few close friends and have a nice slow day ^_- Anyone else with me?
I had a bad one when I was 12 and it was the last birthday in that school too! I
brought cake for them and intend to celebrate with all my classmates and they
told me they had food brought from home and only a few ate a piece! I was so
sad,it was a day I want to share with them and it was the last year too...Until
now I can't forget sometimes I could feel tears in my eyes,it was such a painful
and sad birthday.
Well, hopefully the last few days have been more pleasent and your toes don't
hurt to much...
Hm.. yes, there was a pretty bad birthday... an exam day in the subject I hated
the most... really stressful, too... disgusting weather... meh...
But it wasn't as bad as yours, my condolences and cheer up! I wonder why nobody
of your friends were paying more attention to you though?
What I can say about my b-day is so little that I don`t remember anything worth
mentioning. Every time it was "omitted" (maybe I should say neglected?
), and I got so used forgetting it, that when there is one time my mom finally
remembered it in time(Just that night), I myself forgot it |||
Hugh....... The last 5 years every b-day I am with only myself, I feel really
alone, yet a lonely life might some good thing, I think ^_^
Well, I've had several awkward birthdays, but it wasn't so bad I guess. I'm
sorry that yours didn't go as planned
Let's see...last year, I invited my friends to hang out together on my birthday,
but sadly it didn't turn out well. Some left early, and most of them just
ignored each other for the whole day (they were not close to each other). It was
pretty unpleasant =/ My bad for inviting people that had nothing in common I
guess.
I hate birthdays, mostly because of the people involved. So I tend to avoid them
as much as I can.
But my 22 birthday was the worst I can think of. I ended up spending the whole
day in the ER so my mom could get an emergency blood transfusion. ...but it was
for her survival, so I don't think much of it.
Aw, sorry about what happened. And yeah, I've had a couple bad birthdays...on my
sixteenth birthday, everyone forgot, my mom didn't even buy me a cake...and on
my seventeenth, I got kicked out of my house and I didn't get a single present.
So I've told my parents that if they don't give me some huge bash for my
eighteenth, I'm gonna throw a tantrum and they can't get mad at me.
my 17th and 18th birthday i spent one getting surgeory to remove two spots of
skin cancer and the other i had spent the day before in surgeory for the same
thing. they were small spots so physichal removal was easiest and the new spots
were in diff places but back to topic. lol then to top my 18th birthday i got a
bible and 20$ the money form my mom and the bible from an aunt and uncle.
most of the time birthdays are just like any other day to me. my family is poor
so I dont get many gifts, and usually no cake. whenever I do get something I
always appreciate it alot.
yeah i had one my ex boyfriend and i decided to go shopping because i thought it
would be fun and he wanted to buy me a birthday gift but andy ended up getting a
phone call from his best friend tony and my ex boyfriend asked if it would be ok
if tony joined up with us to go shopping and yknow it was fine with me well
since tony was there my ex boyfriend got sidetracked and forgot to get a present
and also he didnt pay much attention to me after tony showed up and i didnt say
anything about it because i wanted him to remember what he forgot which he never
did
I really dont like any birthdays. I always get pissed off cuz people are tryin
to make go do this and that, and I have to go to parties and eat cake (I hate
sweets). For once, it would be cool to just hang out with friends instead of
having to pretend to have fun with a bunch of people I don't even like.
Quote by XAngel1913Sad, very sad.
Hope you will have a great b-day next time around that could make up the last
one.
Well, I never really have a b-day party at all.
All I have is just an ordinary day.
LOL sadly yes mines the same. MOST of the time its an ordinary day every
birthday ive had except my 9th and 15th. Lets just say i have to make an
EXTREMELY big effort to make it special since most ppl are busy on my
b-day...T_T hell i didnt even see my friends on the day. yes, its sad ah well...
at least i get some extra wealth at the end of it..... some ppl dont celebrate
b-days at all... anyway happy belated b-day for whenever it was.
I can't recall any. I don't have birthday parties, because I believe that I'm
too old for them. Hopefully I won't have a bad birthday for the years to come
o_O
haha, you call that a bad b-day,
you know?
most of my b-days are ...well....nothing, lets just say my b-day mean
nothing...
why you wonder?
well, I never had any happier b-day, that was when I was at home with my family,
now that I'm living in the US without family, I susally work in my b-day, work,
yes, you heard right,
work every f***** year, but I kinda lost care for it, sometimes I even forget
when my birthday is,
but you know, instead of start crying, I just go to the store, buy me something
good to eat,
and say "There is no one here, so it will be more food for
me"
But I supose a lot of people like you like to spend that day with a lot of
people,
well, life cannot be fair all the time, just live with it,
and instead of crying, eat something yummi .
My last one i had, i stopped celebrating them after my 15th. My sister has her
birthday the day before mine, so someof her friends always sleep over and end up
at my party. And since i didnt have many friends, it would be like a half
mine/half hers and her friends would buy me presents too. That sounds all nice,
but its wierd, and im very introverted adn dont like being in front of people
acting exited over presents i could care less about and not looking sad that i
didnt get what id said i wanted. So, my last party was the worst one cause i
didnt really care and just hung out in the front room. I cant really remember
much of the day other than being bored and a bit depressed.
Sadly.... I just had one.
I really, really, wasn't expecting it to turn out this way...
I wasn't all that excited about it, but I wasn't planning for all my friends to kind of clump into their own little groups, have their own fun, stick together yet everyone was still apart, as well as my friend from another school, who didn't know anyone, actually hung out with everyone so naturally... she enjoyed her time with everyone way more than me. Plus I kinda got neglected...
Not only that, I was wearing my new heels that I got the other day- which unfortunately, my mother picked a size too small for that I didn't notice at first (hey, if you only take a couple steps around the store, you're not going to notice if it'll hurt a lot...) so I was really struggling to keep up with everyone, and ended up walking behind them a short distance away. I had told them that I wouldn't be able to walk very quickly...
Next thing I knew, I got home- with the skin ripped off my little toes, blisters on my feet, and in immense pain; inside and out. Then I glanced at the door and read a note, saying: "your sister and I followed your dad to work, so we're going shopping, and we'll be back at 10pm. -Mother" There wasn't even anyone to greet me or welcome me back...
I blindly walked upstairs, dropped my bags, and before I realized what I was doing, I was on my knees, crying my heart out on the bathroom floor. I couldn't believe that I was so alone, even during my own b-day gathering, and that I had no idea that I would end up like this at the end of the day...
Then my dad calls, and tells me what the note said, and before he hung up, asked how my day went. I said 'bad...' but he just replies 'oh, see you later.' and hangs up. Which didn't exactly make me feel any better...
No one's home still. And I'm still sighing at how today turned out.
So, has anyone also had an unhappy b-day?
nope, can't say i have. sorry to hear that yours didn't go so well. =[
merged: 06-30-2007 ~ 04:10pm
p.s. have a second one!
*hugs*
I have bad birthdays EVERY year.
Hmmm I suppose one of the really bad ones was when I had an exam. My present was kind of half shoved at me, and half of the people ignored the fact it was my birthday. And it was an exam day lol.
Another bad birthday... well the day itself wasn't bad, but I found out a week later that 2 of my friends had kept something away from me
Hmmm I guess usually the day isn't that bad until the end of the day when I think about it. This year, half of the people asked me what was so special about the day, and I had to actually tell them it was my birthday. I've also had many promises made to me about my birthday, like how people would remember it and celebrate it and stuff like that- but none of that ever happens.
Regardless, I've learnt to just ignore these things- the birthday is just another day- special in the respect that you grow another year older as that was the day you entered the world, but when you think about it, the other days of the year are equally, if not more important than the birthday: you celebrate being alive every day of your life. So every day is a birthday- sort of
I hope you feel better! Don't worry, maybe your parents have a big surprise for you ^_^
If a bad birthday is considered as a 2 minute 4 person gathering a year, (which i just consider a small dessert), then i pretty much have those bad birthdays every year. Do i need to explain?
I'm sorry that your birthday didn't go so well.
Once, I had to take care of my family because everyone was terribly sick but me. I spent the whole day trying to help them feel better and the rest of the day sulking over it. Then, when they felt better... to take me out to eat for my birthday... my grandfather didn't couldn't eat the food I wanted to eat... so we went where he wanted to go. Petty I know, but it still made me upset.
Honestly, I don't celebrate my birthday anymore. I haven't celebrated a birthday in years or any hollidays either. I'm just not into gatherings, I'd much prefer just to be left alone on those kind of days....
Sad, very sad.
Hope you will have a great b-day next time around that could make up the last one.
Well, I never really have a b-day party at all.
All I have is just an ordinary day.
I think birthdays are over-rated
; Seldom do
they go as planned, as you said. I find it more enjoyable to just sit around
with a few close friends and have a nice slow day ^_- Anyone else with
me?
merged: 07-04-2007 ~ 02:28am
; Seldom do
they go as planned, as you said. I find it more enjoyable to just sit around
with a few close friends and have a nice slow day ^_- Anyone else with me?
I think birthdays are over-rated
yeah I had a bad one....my 20th was awful
Had to move
the next day into a new apartment 
It was so
stressful
well thankfully my 21st this year was mad fun lol ^_^
I had a bad one when I was 12 and it was the last birthday in that school too! I brought cake for them and intend to celebrate with all my classmates and they told me they had food brought from home and only a few ate a piece! I was so sad,it was a day I want to share with them and it was the last year too...Until now I can't forget sometimes I could feel tears in my eyes,it was such a painful and sad birthday.
Well, hopefully the last few days have been more pleasent and your toes don't hurt to much...
Hm.. yes, there was a pretty bad birthday... an exam day in the subject I hated the most... really stressful, too... disgusting weather... meh...
But it wasn't as bad as yours, my condolences and cheer up! I wonder why nobody of your friends were paying more attention to you though?
Yeah! ..............
What I can say about my b-day is so little that I don`t remember anything worth mentioning. Every time it was "omitted" (maybe I should say neglected?
), and I got so used forgetting it, that when there is one time my mom finally
remembered it in time(Just that night), I myself forgot it 
|||
Hugh....... The last 5 years every b-day I am with only myself, I feel really alone, yet a lonely life might some good thing, I think ^_^
16th and 17th more or less sucked. if it wasnt for the material gain on birthdays and christmas, they would be like any other day of the year.
Well, I've had several awkward birthdays, but it wasn't so bad I guess. I'm sorry that yours didn't go as planned
Let's see...last year, I invited my friends to hang out together on my birthday, but sadly it didn't turn out well. Some left early, and most of them just ignored each other for the whole day (they were not close to each other). It was pretty unpleasant =/ My bad for inviting people that had nothing in common I guess.
I hate birthdays, mostly because of the people involved. So I tend to avoid them as much as I can.
But my 22 birthday was the worst I can think of. I ended up spending the whole day in the ER so my mom could get an emergency blood transfusion. ...but it was for her survival, so I don't think much of it.
Aw, sorry about what happened. And yeah, I've had a couple bad birthdays...on my sixteenth birthday, everyone forgot, my mom didn't even buy me a cake...and on my seventeenth, I got kicked out of my house and I didn't get a single present. So I've told my parents that if they don't give me some huge bash for my eighteenth, I'm gonna throw a tantrum and they can't get mad at me.
my 17th and 18th birthday i spent one getting surgeory to remove two spots of skin cancer and the other i had spent the day before in surgeory for the same thing. they were small spots so physichal removal was easiest and the new spots were in diff places but back to topic. lol then to top my 18th birthday i got a bible and 20$ the money form my mom and the bible from an aunt and uncle.
most of the time birthdays are just like any other day to me. my family is poor so I dont get many gifts, and usually no cake. whenever I do get something I always appreciate it alot.
yeah i had one my ex boyfriend and i decided to go shopping because i thought it would be fun and he wanted to buy me a birthday gift but andy ended up getting a phone call from his best friend tony and my ex boyfriend asked if it would be ok if tony joined up with us to go shopping and yknow it was fine with me well since tony was there my ex boyfriend got sidetracked and forgot to get a present and also he didnt pay much attention to me after tony showed up and i didnt say anything about it because i wanted him to remember what he forgot which he never did
I really dont like any birthdays. I always get pissed off cuz people are tryin to make go do this and that, and I have to go to parties and eat cake (I hate sweets). For once, it would be cool to just hang out with friends instead of having to pretend to have fun with a bunch of people I don't even like.
LOL sadly yes mines the same. MOST of the time its an ordinary day every birthday ive had except my 9th and 15th. Lets just say i have to make an EXTREMELY big effort to make it special since most ppl are busy on my b-day...T_T hell i didnt even see my friends on the day. yes, its sad ah well... at least i get some extra wealth at the end of it..... some ppl dont celebrate b-days at all... anyway happy belated b-day for whenever it was.
I can't recall any. I don't have birthday parties, because I believe that I'm too old for them. Hopefully I won't have a bad birthday for the years to come o_O
haha, you call that a bad b-day,
you know?
most of my b-days are ...well....nothing, lets just say my b-day mean nothing...
why you wonder?
well, I never had any happier b-day, that was when I was at home with my family, now that I'm living in the US without family, I susally work in my b-day, work, yes, you heard right,
work every f***** year, but I kinda lost care for it, sometimes I even forget when my birthday is,
but you know, instead of start crying, I just go to the store, buy me something good to eat,
and say "There is no one here, so it will be more food for me"
But I supose a lot of people like you like to spend that day with a lot of people,
.
well, life cannot be fair all the time, just live with it,
and instead of crying, eat something yummi
My last one i had, i stopped celebrating them after my 15th. My sister has her birthday the day before mine, so someof her friends always sleep over and end up at my party. And since i didnt have many friends, it would be like a half mine/half hers and her friends would buy me presents too. That sounds all nice, but its wierd, and im very introverted adn dont like being in front of people acting exited over presents i could care less about and not looking sad that i didnt get what id said i wanted. So, my last party was the worst one cause i didnt really care and just hung out in the front room. I cant really remember much of the day other than being bored and a bit depressed.