I'm just wondering at what point does a relationship change from
friendship/flirting to cheating. Talking suggestively? Holding hands? Calling /
texting and you don't tell your partner? Secret meetings? Sex? Oral sex?
Kissing? Flirting? Where is the line? Where do you think, and why?
I would think that anything you do with someone other than your partner,
especially if you do it in secret, if you are thinking romantically and lusting
after them, would to me count as cheating. It would just be less of cheating if
you are only holding hands with someone you are with compared to sleeping with
them. I wouldnt want my husband spending time secretly with another woman behind
my back and I would never do it to him. All I can say is "Do not do unto
others what you would not have them do unto you." So if you dont want them
to cheat on you, them dont cheat on them.
from laying witness to my parents...like joycev mentioned anything that is done
in "secret" is cheating and thanks to my mom, talking to people online
is no exception to cheating, if the other partner doesn't know about it chances
are it's cheating...that's my take on it could be wrong though, have been wrong
in the past
I'd probably say it's really simple to define: if your lover did it, would it
piss you off? If it would then that would be cheating. Cheating is most easily
dodged through simple communication, talking to your partner about what is and
isn't acceptable. Something as simple as a man visiting with an ex-girlfriend
may make them uncomfortable. Ultimately, that line in the sand should be drawn
once a relationship has gotten serious.
What constitutes as cheating is in simpliest terms. You doing anything from
flirting and holding hands in a romantic gesture that your partner is not
knowledged of when you do it and is not ok with. Example: You go to the movies
with a friend now the friend and you hold hands and look like a couple, but you
two are just friends a person who knows your partner would see it and figure you
was cheating. Where as if your partner knew that was how you two would act was
ok with it and thus it's not cheating, but if they didn't know about that stuff
or wasn't ok then thus it is cheating.
I'm just wondering at what point does a relationship change from friendship/flirting to cheating. Talking suggestively? Holding hands? Calling / texting and you don't tell your partner? Secret meetings? Sex? Oral sex? Kissing? Flirting? Where is the line? Where do you think, and why?
I would think that anything you do with someone other than your partner, especially if you do it in secret, if you are thinking romantically and lusting after them, would to me count as cheating. It would just be less of cheating if you are only holding hands with someone you are with compared to sleeping with them. I wouldnt want my husband spending time secretly with another woman behind my back and I would never do it to him. All I can say is "Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you." So if you dont want them to cheat on you, them dont cheat on them.
from laying witness to my parents...like joycev mentioned anything that is done in "secret" is cheating and thanks to my mom, talking to people online is no exception to cheating, if the other partner doesn't know about it chances are it's cheating...that's my take on it could be wrong though, have been wrong in the past
I'd probably say it's really simple to define: if your lover did it, would it piss you off? If it would then that would be cheating. Cheating is most easily dodged through simple communication, talking to your partner about what is and isn't acceptable. Something as simple as a man visiting with an ex-girlfriend may make them uncomfortable. Ultimately, that line in the sand should be drawn once a relationship has gotten serious.
What constitutes as cheating is in simpliest terms. You doing anything from flirting and holding hands in a romantic gesture that your partner is not knowledged of when you do it and is not ok with. Example: You go to the movies with a friend now the friend and you hold hands and look like a couple, but you two are just friends a person who knows your partner would see it and figure you was cheating. Where as if your partner knew that was how you two would act was ok with it and thus it's not cheating, but if they didn't know about that stuff or wasn't ok then thus it is cheating.
ugh don't cheat it's sound like a jerk
This is my book of cheating: Holding hands with another girl, kissing another girl, having sex with another girl. That's about it.