Now. I do know that this is a duplicate thread but I do plan to try and bring up more detailed topics and such. So mods
please, take that in to concideration.
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Also, beware this does have some "mature" content if it bothers you, I apologize.
Anyways, the past few weeks have been harsh for many people I know. ANd a close family member had spoken of a failed relationship he had, he spoke of how this girl he was with was "experienced" in this field. He said that one of the things that would may have made their marriage a failed one was teh fact that she may have had higher expectations and that if he could not please her in that way she may have tried to go out and find another "source" for it. After they split up (for many other reasons) he realized that he would much rather find someone to be with who was "pure" and that way they could share that experience on their wedding night and it would be more special.
In my opinion it would most likely be better to wait. Because I have noticed many times that couples who have had sex before marriage usually end up splitting up before marriage because sooner or later they became "bored". I also don't support breaking up with your partner because you were bored... it truthfully shows how close they really were but that is off topic.
So some questions to think of would be:
Would you/have you had sex before marriage?
Do you think you made the right choice? (those who may apply to the first question)
If you are a virgin and your boyfriend/girlfriend is not, does that bother you?
Have you split up with a girlfriend/boyfriend after having intercourse? (or know anybody who has?)
I may have left out a few questions so be sure to bring up any topics as to keep the conversation going.
