There are a few sayings i would like to share with you:
"If people demanded a strong will to survive, fate will surely respond to their demand!"
"By Learning Pain you become Kind to
others!"
"If You don't Believe in yourself, then no matter how much or how hard you try, it would be a failure! Hard Work pays off Only when you
believe in yourself!"
why did i mention those in such a topic? its because i've experienced both situations. the worst was in High
School. Yet, the best was at university. there are major differences, and major similarities.
For example, in an Elite skool, and a normal skool, or lets say below average, is that in an Elite school, you have the chance to be much more
sophisticated, "academically". However, in a normal skool, you don't have such a chance, but u have to
"Be Aware" or yourself.
A major similarity between the two is: "wherever you go, people are all the same!"
But what i really found out is, it really depends on You yourself! if you really want to study, even if you're in a
normal skool, you will always try to search for the best possibilities, opportunities, skills, whatever! but if you lose
yourself, and try to get popular in a dark way, like u mentioned: Low
Self-Esteem, u'll never get anywhere. BUT, if you get popular in a proper Academic way, People are more than
willing to give you their all to help you!
Even if you're at a normal school, by learning things in the worst situations, worst case senarios, worst
everything ... whenever you try to apply them, you'd be thinking "well, even though i've learned it the
hard way, i know how to do it". And the easy way should be like saying "Hi!" so someone else! and you
should also be able to help whoever asks you for help!
There is no such thing as "Average Intelligence". All people in the
world are intelligent. It depends on the way you use this intelligence! A late study showed that in the age period from
20-29, you should introduce alot of new information to your brain. This way, you would train it to think harder, and to
widen your horizon! which is true if you think about it. but why in this certain age period? its because in this period,
people get to see more of life! they need to know more about what's going on around them! in the 20's, people
are at their best health! especially the brain.
Integrity, Honesty, Courage, Generosity, Compassion, and let me also add
Self-Esteem, The Will, Love, "Trust", "Self-Confidence", Prestige, Etiquette, Academic Intelligence.
those are factors that YOU Yourself should accomplish, no matter where you are!
I know people that went to elite skools, but don't know anything about what they've learned! they just
memorized it! and i also know people from the same skool, they're missing a lab of their own! (meaning,
they're super intelligent!). its because they're used skool the proper way, and they're much more popular
between students, doctors, even ministeries of such field!
Therefore, i urge everyone to use their brains instead of their @$$e$! its not only good for the people around you, its
good for yourself! you would love yourself when you accomplish something that you really worked hard for, and turns out
a success!
~_~ did you sleep yet? lol sorry for the constructive explanation, but i've had the same issue with the people that
i hang around! (at skool, work, the street, even in the family tribe)!
