:sweat: in the past two weeks things for me have gone from bad to worse....my friends have been taken from me, and i'vee been mugged...it's taken me all by suprise...it's literally altering my look and my presence. before i would make people laugh and they would always ask, "Luis why are you always smiling." but not even an hour ago a girl came up to me and said, "Luis? What's wrong, why aren't you smiling like usual?" And this phase i'm going through is literally changing me. I've had strong stomach aches, and butterflies in my stomach, alot lately. My face was red and mmy eyes got really red the other day. My head is aching like crazy and i'm losing taste in food...am i entering depression...again? please MT, you've helped me alot in past events but now i'm askingfor your ultimate help, i can't consult with my friends or family, i have no one to turn to...por favar, con tu corasones, ajuda me! Please HELP! i dont want to be sad anymore....
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fading away isn't an option.
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- Jan 31, 2007
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anima241, you should read my thread My amazing depression story (Good conclusion) it'll inspire you, cause I went through similar stuff that you did.
But seriously, you should go see the school counsellor for help, I've been to one and it really helped me.
Do your friends that have been taken away from you, still talk to you? Cause that means they havn't been taken away. It's normal for friends to talk to someone else more than you, cause they're more interesting.
I use to get angry cause some of my friends would do the same thing and it made me feel lonely, but then I learn to accept the fact that the other person is more interesting than me thats why they're talking to him/her more rather than me.
Believe me, I'm sometimes guilty for doing that to my friends, but I do try to talk to everyone in the group, it's just hard to do sometimes.
Imagine if one friend had the same interests to you, and another who doesn't really. Who would you talk to more? Ofcourse the friend that has the similar interests to you. Ofcourse if you're a good person you'll try to talk to them both, but you'll end up talking to the person who has the same interests to you more, cause the conversation is more enjoyable. So it's normal for your friends to do that.
Like, if they don't give a sh*t about you, then they're not really good friends and you should just leave them.
I know you might feel lonely, but remember keep trying and searching for other friends. Sometimes you gotta "take risk" in order to make friends. Seriously read my thread My amazing depression story (Good conclusion) it'll show you how I went about making friends and how I overcame my 2.5 years social stagnation. If you're lazy :P just skip to the bottom and read the summary.
And please I recommend you go to toastmasters, it's a positive environment there and the people make you feel welcome and will talk to you. They gave me the confidence to speak again and was very influential on helping me get out of my social stagnation.
Here's the website: www.toastmasters.org
I hope my advice would help you solve your problem, you can ask me anytime for help and I'll try to give you advice if I can.
Btw, it's good that you smile, you see I didn't use to smile a lot, and when I try talking to people they'll just ignore me, or not seem interested. When I started smiling more and showing more of my emotions people started to talk to me. Believe me it's only been around 6 months that I started to really smile and show my emotions more, I guess I was afraid cause I thought it'll look weird to people. But I took the risk, cause you need to take risk inorder for things to change sometimes.
Anyways, I'm talking way too much, bad habit, I really get into these things helping out people with my experiences sometimes.
I hope you can solve your problem and remember I don't wanna nag you, but you gotta try out toastmasters, it's all over the world, so there should be a nearby club around your place. Even if you're not old enough, it doesn't stop you from coming back as a guest many times :P and still give you the same treatment as other members.
Good luck with solving your problem :)
You can't take my powers away Rita, I'm the Green Ranger!- Jan 31, 2007
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Well, I think the reason nobody has replied is actually because of how long the 2nd guys post is, and nobody could be bothered readin it, and therefore not knowing if they had already given the advice that you wanted to give. But yeah, you need a good friend. Find a good friend, and you an overcome anything aslong as that person is with you
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- Mar 17, 2007
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