Yeah, my wife will point out the hot babes, too. She knows me well, so she knows what women I find physically
attractive. (I can always look at the menu as long as I eat at home, if you catch my drift.) I have trouble picking
out "hot" guys that she likes, though; I guess that's a good thing, since I obviously have no clue what
makes a guy hot. She professes a weakness for balding men, like Ed Harris, Nic Cage, and (yes, it's true) Sean
Connery. This is a very good thing for me, since my hair is kept quite short.
Also, you ever notice that women can always catch a guy looking at other women, but guys have a very difficult time
catching women doing the same thing? I have no idea why that is, but it's true. Did you girls go to a special
school to learn that trick?
Back to the mind games, I have learned from "Men Mars Women Venus" not to try to fix things. As I like to be
a highly competent male ("Husband! Go out into the jungle and bring back dinner!" "Ugh! Snort!"
<grabs club, leaves cave, hunts down highly dangerous critters for dinner>) I have to resist the urge not to try
to fix things when my wife comes home with complaints about co-workers, the boss, co-workers, relatives of co-workers,
the boss, etc. This makes for a much better atmosphere when she can vent, have me listen sympathetically, and not try
to fix it for her.
