Quote by AlishaOh man I am NOT gonna try to be nice to that guy! I was already
nice.... O.K maybe not nice but O.K with him in the first place! Oh
jeez I hope you guys are right...
lol - you should have hired me to be your bodyguard over here. **Snickers**
I can see why you seem a little so uptight about it - I guess you have every right to say what you feel. As for me - I would follow the number one suggestion as many people pointed out - ignorance. Trust me, it works. However, since you seem to have retaliated rather than bored him to death by not letting him get into your head like that, you've dug in a pretty big hole that you can't get out of, and even here sitting and looking over your post, I cannot offer you any real help at all for this type of situation, because it is rather unique for each individual from there on in. Just remember that there's always better people to hang around and chat to, and make it look like he isn't worth any of your time. That'll bite him back for sure over the long run.
First and foremost - if he talks about your friends like that - there's almost every good possible reason why you should hate him back. Hey - it makes sense - what do these no-gooders have in the first place to put you down like that. Are they in it for fun? Because to me, it seems like they want to make you miserable - or so I'm reading this from the looks and observations of your own views.
Here's my general afterthought of your responses:
Quote by AlishaOh man I am NOT gonna try to be nice to that guy! I was already
nice.... O.K maybe not nice but O.K with him in the first place! Oh
jeez I hope you guys are right...
Then if you don't want to be nice to him, and if you feel that this is the right thing for you to do, then go ahead and do it. I suppose coughing out an answer back and telling him its all going to be okay is going to make you look bad when you want things from him resolved as quickly as possible. If you want to figure this problem out, you'll need both people on the table to actually agree and find some kind of peaceful solution out there at once, but from what I'm guess and from what I've expected people to do in the past, this sort of "hate-me, love-me back" situation will stick on you for quite a while now. **Nods** Happens quite often to people who are picky on others like that and I know they want to provoke just to see you angry, and get a laugh and kick out of it as well. I just don't understand why some people act like they want to really bug you just for fun, rather than respect you for your privacy. Every person should have their own boundaries and space respected for once. It just doesn't seem right.
Quote by Alisha*laughing* I know I shouldn't have hit him but I couldn't help it! And
yeah being called hot is a compliment! But it was HIM that called me
hot! And that's scarey!!!
lol - don't want to go there, but you'll get a lot of those compliments from them. Believe me - us girls know all about that, right Alisha? **Nods** Yeah, don't even get me started there. **Pulls out her shotgun** lol - It's not always right to be saying those things in public.
If he blurted that compliment out to sting you more often, well don't let it get to your head like that. I probably bet he cracked a big grin when you gave a shot back at him. That's exactly what he wants you to do. Just let all that negative energy go, and tell him in a strict but somewhat kind manner not to bug you for once. Having friends around you will make it that much easier, believe me, and you can always call a mature adult at times like a teacher about it if he still doesn't get the picture. That'll settle him straight. lol - Anyhou, good day now. **Hides into the bushes**
