There are many cases where married couples divorce because they can't have children (one of them is infertile or
other causes). Do you agree with it? Personally, I don't. Marriage isn't just all about having sex and
children, right?
After all, why don't they adopt some?
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- Apr 21, 2006
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I think it depends on some factors. If they knew beforehand, they shouldn't have a reason to divorce, but what if someone lied to the other?
I agree that relationships aren't all about sex and children. Plus, adopting isn't that bad, save the children ^_^ (Not that I would know XD)
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That is something I do not agree with. Strongly.
I know a number of childless couples who are happy with their marriage. Most adopt children. One particular couple never adopt, instead spending their time socialising with friends and remaining happily married into their retired years. It would be nice indeed to be able to have children (assuming you want them in the first place), but as you said, that is not everything about marriage.
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- Apr 21, 2006
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I think what's striking about many people divorcing, especially while at a young age is simply because of the fact that they don't want to have any children, nor would they wish to handle the responsibilities of taking care of a child when one is not ready to endure the parenting phase quite yet.
That is why it is very important for young teenagers nowadays not to even think about unwanted pregnancy, because at the end, that little child could end up ruining a relationship, let alone, leaving the child to live an unbearable life in the future, if the case turns out to be that this child is turned down by both parents through a financial crisis and is expected to be adopted this way, under unfortunate circumstances.
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- Apr 21, 2006
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I think that even if couple can't have children,it doesn't mean that they have to divorce,they can adopt a child,and when you think about it,there are many unwanted children so they would be happy too...
- May 16, 2006
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- May 16, 2006
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No, you can always adopt a child instead. Don't fight over over the whole child thing... It's not a reason to divorce. Its just stupid.
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yeah I mean I can't have children...and my fiance doesn't care...and if we ever wanted to have children...I'm sure we could adopt if we wanted to. But you shouldn't divorce just for the fact that you can't or don't want kids...there are alot of married couples that are just happy with each other like I am...and you shouldn't fight over something so stupid anyways
- Jun 06, 2006
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Not having children is not good basis enough for divorce. Divorce is more than that, it's that you both cannot simply cooperate. There are many other ways to have a kid. like adopt, invetro, etc.
- Jun 08, 2006
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no.it plays a part but its not always.i mean, you should be loving the person you marry, not treat the person like some...baby producing machine. at most, if you really want a child, go adopt one if conceiving a baby is impossible.there are ways to solve an infertility problem, you just have to look into it
and if you are arguing about having a kid where one party wants it but the other doesn't, shouldn't this have been sorted out before the marriage?
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depends on the parents and the child.
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- Jun 09, 2006
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Well that just depends on the couple. Some don't want to have children at all, others are OK with adoption, some think of this as a very big problem that can't be solved... Well basicly I don't judge anyone, if they want to take a divorce because of that it's their decision and it must be the best for them.
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- Jun 09, 2006
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well.. i disagree about divorce but still it's up to them. if they think it's the best for them then so be it. but personally i really disagree about divorce. Just as Bumble-Bee said why not adopt a child?
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- Jun 09, 2006
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i would have to agree with you. there are many couples on this earth that are divorce and have a child together. thus the whole child support and who gets the child when and where and so on.
a divorce is based on more then just if the couple is able to bear children. these days people tend to get married befor they know what each other are like or because one of them has become pregnant. then when they get married they find out that there so called "lover" does things that bother them or other comflicts. this tends to lead to a divorce.
true cases of divorce are based on they couple not being able to have a child but not usually. and like you said ealier there is adoptions. so its cant be child bearing that is the cause for most divorces.
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Ah, yes... You're all agree wh me. That's good. However, people in my contry, especially those from noble families, usually have an argument that by not haning children, then the noble family line will be broken. And moreover, most of them are reluctant to give all their inheritance (wealth, family companies, or shares) to someone out of their family line. Well, it'skinda unusual in this nuclear age. But believe me, in this country, such a thing still exists.
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