Its in whose nature to Betray, Men or Women?

Its in whose nature to Betray?

Men
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Women
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Both
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Both, but you dont betray when you trully like the person.
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carlozzzzbr

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I aways thought it was men's nature but... At least in my country it seems different.
It seems grand part of the guys want a true relationship, different of grand part of the girls who just want to have fun. (that means, go party in the night kiss one or more guys just for the fun)

There was this girl who cheated on me when we were dating. We finished the relationship then.
And theres this other girl who cheated in an other guy with me. I agreed in not saying the truth to the guy but i dont know if this was for the best.

Anyway, tell me your opinions, and, if you want, talk about any experience you have about the subject.

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I'm going to say it is in the nature of both men and women to betray. I've seen a lot of women who betray the men that love them and I've seen a lot of men who'd betray the women that love them and its rather sad to see it happen.

Take for example an ex of mine that is now married. When we first started dating she told me she was going with her best friend's boyfriend somewhere because he had the tickets and his girlfriend couldn't go. Months later I discovered that the best friend's boyfriend was actually my girlfriend's other boyfriend and the best friend had helped her lie to me. Well we broke up and we did end up dating again over the next few years a few times and each time she would lie to me and her best friend would help her cover it up and then blame me for every bad thing that would happen even if we never spoke. The last time we spoke or dated she was actually engaged and was wanting a fling. I kinda feel sorry for the guy she married, but considering the fact that she was telling me how he owned his own house and ran a company and then I found out that he shared an apartment with another couple and he worked for someone at some job that didn't pay much I feel they are just right for each other. Neither can be honest.

carlozzzzbr

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Lol, i guess they r really made for each other. Well theres no problem if they r okay with it.

FuturePerfect

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Hmm everyone can betray someone.

But my ex-girlfriend seemed to of stained my opinion on girls and there faith. Since we broke up, about 2 years ago. She has dated and "gone" through about 15 other boys, one after another. So im sorta of scared of liking a girl (im not saying i like boys, because i do like girls) too much because of what my ex has done.

But in response to your original question: Its in whose nature to Betray?
I answered both, because i have many friends that seem to enjoy having girlfriends to let them down ..

  • Feb 21, 2009

Siegeldamon

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it's human instinct to be attracted to a more superior breed so there's no difference between the gender and from what I read Males have 56% chance to betray while Females have 54% so it may be small it's still almost equal

  • Feb 22, 2009

mick-klaassen

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Both not only men not only girl atleast i think so
i don't trust the most people at first sight
i'm always aware about what happened between me and my friends

why?

  • Feb 22, 2009

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it's in both nature to cheat, it's just always seen as the male in some countries but these days the women are just as likely to cheat as the guy...I wonder what ever happened to faith, honor and the likes...disposible society, it seems, is what some people have come to see and view things, quite sad really

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Suxinn

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I'd have to say that I don't think that gender matters in these types of situations. It's more of a matter of personality and what kind of person they are.

ismiy

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eh? betrayal is something that comes naturally to man(and woman alike). It's just like asking who's more liable to tell lies- anyone will do it if he/she thinks it will work. I thought men were more liable too but I've sharply erased that thought.

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well, actually it's BOTH for me^^

EevaLeena

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Both for me. I don't think there's any different when it comes to betrayal ^^

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Both... but mostly... in the dramas and animes I've watch, I noticed that they are pointing that men betray first than women... but in one anime I've watch: Bokura ga Ita... the guy is saying that the girl betrayed him first so in exchange, the guy also betrayed her in the way that he slept with his girlfriend's younger sister, but then the girl is already dead and he confronted her current girlfriend that even though he betrayed the dead girl, he still loved her...

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Alistare

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You can't pin a statement like that on just men or women. ALL people by nature are untrustworthy. It's just some act more on it than others depending on what one might have to gain or lose.

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I think every Humans eventually will betray....

  • Apr 23, 2009

Davo

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i think is a part of human relationship like love and hate

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KazamiHayato

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Well... To be frankly prefer both. Even my friends were betraying me but I'm still forgiving and kind. I know its hard to tell.

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  • Apr 24, 2009
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i'm really not sure but i'd say both.

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I like to think of it as more complex than just 'nature'. It boils down to someone's morals and personality, male or female.

  • Apr 30, 2009
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I don't think it depends so much on the genre, altougth Antropoligists say that, because four years old it's the age in which a human child starts to walk by him/herself, fidelity last about four years.

Why? We're not talking Homo Sapiens here. As soon as an Hominid kid started to be more or less self-suficcient in finding food, the father would loose interest and start looking for other female. And the mother would look for another mate. So, the gene pool would have variety.

So, a couple would go througth a crisis every four years or so, in which they have to re-invent love.

Interesting theory, uh?

In YOUR CASE, maybe it depends on the KIND OF GIRL you like to date.

If you like very pretty girls (here meaning the cheerleader type) that are always flirting, you should make up your mind and start looking for more stable kind of girls, even if they are not goddesses

  • Apr 30, 2009

MoonSpike

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betraying depends on the personality of person, I'm from your country and here in my city I ever hear that womens betray more, but all my friends already has betrayed their girlfriends, so I think depends on the person. Try to learn more about the person, it always help.

Suicide is just an easy way of telling everyone that loves you, you hate them.

  • Apr 30, 2009
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I don't think it's in the nature of gender. I think it's HUMAN nature...

  • May 07, 2009
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Both, but you dont betray when you trully like the person.

  • May 08, 2009

FatalB

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Neither. i have faith in humanity today, i know that's absurd.

people betray, not men, not women, people.

i know some men who are absolute pigs, and i know some pretty skanky girls... make me sad cause I'm the nice guy who always thinks of the persons feelings. (sucks more than you think it would) in fact, im righting a new topic in a moment llook for the topic mr.niceguy

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  • May 13, 2009
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i think it is both genders' nature to betray
they either betray one another accidentally or intentionally
i don't know about my country but that's what i think

for the girls:
they may cheat on guys as they see that the guys who fall head over heels in love with them as a way of getting their wants and a person to vent their anger/ mood swings on and as a gossip subject among her other friends

for the guys:
they just want sex?
ot that's the traditional thinking hahaz...

  • May 13, 2009

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