if you fall in love online, you've got problems
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"Every man dies, but not every man lives"
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- Oct 19, 2005
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I guess in a way everyone is right. If you trust that person and they trust you, then that's special. But also there's a small chance of ever meeting that person. I don't really know what to believe any more, except do what you think is right.
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Fall in love with someone on-line is posible, but never happed to me
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The first is the glory of God- Oct 19, 2005
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I was liek that at first, thinking I will never fall in love online and that liking someone online is stupid, but wow..now i do.
It may be harder.. but we live with it.- Oct 19, 2005
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very interesting question, i think that ii IS possible though the chances of it succeeding arent that great, just because you can be someone completely different here than in real life, but then again im usually not right about these things
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- Oct 20, 2005
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OniJin
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Hey everyone... Stop saying "if you fall in love online - you've got problems"
The way I look at it is this... People always say sence of humor, personality, and characteristics are really what matters. If you're honest and stay true about yourself... How is that stuff suddenly out the window. Online, all you are is personality.
Such websites as eharmony.com and myownfriends.com learned this long ago.
Don't be so closed. Open up to all ideas. Look to both sides of the coin. It would be odd, considering you've never seen the person... But is that shallow?
I dunno - all I can really is:Nice thread Starsaturn. Really. You had a great idea!!
- Oct 20, 2005
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Quote by AlishaDam I'm with you mel. I've also fallen in love with someone over the net. It is possible and no it's not something that's "dumb" or "stupid" cause there someone who's not in your area. Just that when your in one it's just like anyother relationship. You gotta trust them
In the point that Alisha made, the key words are "not in your area". Suppose that you've seen how people look in your area, tried to approach them and they backed down from you, or thought that they were good enough and you didn't like them in the end because of their actions? Knowing a personality ahead of time and knowing the looks by the use of the webcam will help determine if you really want that relationship or not. Falling in love online does not entail problems, but it is often a great way to prepare for meeting in the future so that you're ready to really communicate with the person. Love online will only be a problem if you think there is a problem with it.
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Depends I guess....
- Oct 20, 2005
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Quote by OniJinHey everyone... Stop saying "if you fall in love online - you've got problems"
The way I look at it is this... People always say sence of humor, personality, and characteristics are really what matters. If you're honest and stay true about yourself... How is that stuff suddenly out the window. Online, all you are is personality.
Such websites as eharmony.com and myownfriends.com learned this long ago.
Don't be so closed. Open up to all ideas. Look to both sides of the coin. It would be odd, considering you've never seen the person... But is that shallow?
I dunno - all I can really is:
Nice thread Starsaturn. Really. You had a great idea!!
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- Oct 20, 2005
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Quote by Kyoo69You can't fall in true love online. Some people can believe so for
various reasons, but in the end it's not truth. For me something like
that is weird and not satisfing. It doesn't have the soul and charm of
true love unfolding in the real life.
I guess it could be possible to have some feelings, see eachother on
webcams, meet after a few months. But I'm not convinced that it's a
strong feeling that will last.
BSA good friend of mine met the man who is now her fiancee online. Different forum, but same concept. They began talking over messenger and eventually fell in love with each other. My friend lives here in Michigan and he lives in Virginia, so it's a pretty big distance. They made plans to meet in Florida with mutual friends from the same forum, and when they were together their love became even more strong. They both knew they had found "the one". They talked on the phone a lot and made more plans to get together. He came up to visit her about 4 months later, where he proposed to her. She accepted. Now, they are living together in Virginia (she just moved down there this week) and they have every intention of spending the rest of their lives together.
People can fall in love online and have a true, real, lasting relationship. Just because it hasn't happened to you or anyone you know doesn't mean it isn't possible.
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It's hard to fall for someone that you have only talked to on the net as, you build up a picture of this person in your head that, they can't possibly meet in reality.
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Quote by starsaturn
Quote by OniJinHey everyone... Stop saying "if you fall in love online - you've got problems"
The way I look at it is this... People always say sence of humor, personality, and characteristics are really what matters. If you're honest and stay true about yourself... How is that stuff suddenly out the window. Online, all you are is personality.
Such websites as eharmony.com and myownfriends.com learned this long ago.
Don't be so closed. Open up to all ideas. Look to both sides of the coin. It would be odd, considering you've never seen the person... But is that shallow?
I dunno - all I can really is:
Nice thread Starsaturn. Really. You had a great idea!!
Sounds like you're talking from experience :) are you in love with MelonBrust?
^______^ huaa...good question starsaturn..
I would like the hear the answer to that one too...
- Oct 20, 2005
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OniJin
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Whoa whoa whoa... When did this turn into a witch hunt?
And how come I have to answer... What about melonbrust... Ladies first...But seriously starsaturn - in light of your question
I uh... (sweats a little) well... uh... (sweating more)
You see.... I... uh.... (hic-ups and passes out)
*~awkward shyness overcomes the atmosphere~*
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To each his or her own. Chances are life styles wouldn't mix, if you were to ever meet.
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Quote by OniJinWhoa whoa whoa... When did this turn into a witch hunt?
And how come I have to answer... What about melonbrust... Ladies first...
But seriously starsaturn - in light of your question
I uh... (sweats a little) well... uh... (sweating more)
You see.... I... uh.... (hic-ups and passes out)
*~awkward shyness overcomes the atmosphere~*
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OniJin
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Whoa boy!!! Feeling small here...
HEY melonbrust where R U? I NEED HELP here! *no answer* >so alone< :(
}ahahaha sinister thought{ I never answered the question. You're just asuming.
Besides, how could you not... Talk to her once and awhile. She's the best (no offence to anyone else).- Oct 20, 2005
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Ah, quit picking on "poor" Onijin (hey, shouldn't we be leaving demons alone anyways?). ^_^'
In answer to the thread question: Well...personally if the feeling is mutual, I say be cautious and go for it.
I don't need to think about this personally, as Koenken (on MT) was already my fiancee before we got on MT. ;)
"Death is lighter than a feather, Duty is heavier than a mountain" -Wheel of Time- Oct 20, 2005
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i wont..
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Quote by SilentMasamuneFor those who do not know the story, I am actually with an MT member right now. So far, it has been 5 to 6 months that I've talked to the girl. She pledged to never leave me for any reason, and after a few months, I believed her. I have seen her picture for myself, not only by an image file, but by webcam. A webcam is certainly the most evident means of getting to know how a person looks since it's live. Yes, the person may still not be truthful about things, like location and age, but the webcam will tell a lot more than just a bunch of words. Thanks to the webcam, I now have the girlfriend of my dreams, but all I must do is get past college to live with her. On vacations, I pay a visit. It's that simple if the person on the other side trusts you and you trust the person. I love you, toxictea23. <3
not only you,there are several MT members who have a LOVE over MT, like SilentMasamune with his Toxictea23
and like joycev and her BF( i even know how old he really is)those who say you cant find love over internet are stupid, we got lots of people who have a love over internet here
and one of my friends
Bernouli has a BF named nameleschibineko
or somthing liek thati think you sould stop talking before you know what you talk about
Quote by loneknightlove is suffering and stupid. Love online? It's idiotic to love someone online. I'll never be like that
it makes me sick to listen to idiots like you...you know that?
and suddenly you just find one, then i would really like to see what your going to sayok i my self, dont have a GF nor do i think i will find one over internet or real life
but shut the hel* up when you dont know what you talk about
It is time for you to drown
- Oct 20, 2005
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well nice comment tias.. i guess i was wrong about you before and i am sorry about my last commment on phanthuha thread.. I agree with what youre saying, i think people shouldnt judge others in personal matter like love or even religion.. Its a personal choice and everyone has the right to do whatever they think is the best for them.. ^^
meanwhile..about me and onijin..
well.. its not what you guys think. we re not together..we re not a couple
But he is just an amazing person, really..once you got to know him, i am sure you ll fall in love with him too .. He is everything a girl could ever want in a guy- Oct 20, 2005
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love on the internet . . . hmmmmm . . . don't think thats going to last even if you DO trust each other how would you know that they won't betray your trust when you don't see them online or on the webcam?
and how would you know when to meet them? in the future? i don't think so . . . they might not be who you think they are . . . they may be that person that you fell in love with and all . . . but what if they change? change to a person with a personality that you depise?
what will you do then? still want to meet them in person? still want to be with them?
i'm sorry if i'm taking it too far or if i'm being a pessimistic . . . but that's how i see it.and no . . . falling in love with someone in the net is not my thing nor do i plan in doing so.
"Words aren't the only thing that let people know what you're thinking..." - Tifa Lockhart, FFVII- Oct 21, 2005
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I don't think it's actually possib;e to fall in love with someone online. Love can't be made out to be something so cheap (not trying to insult anyone here). I think you can love someone just from meeting them online, but not fall in love with someone just through the net. I think wanting to see someone in the real world you think is great online can't be called love, it's just the classic human scenario of wanting something they can't currently get. And the more they can't have it, the more they want it.
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- Oct 21, 2005
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I think that it might be possible but they should meet if they really think they are in love and spend some time being actually together without the internet before they can really say if they are.
I didn't think angels existed until I met one.
- Oct 21, 2005
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wronnng! i think it'll only be a crush and not love!!!!!!!! but i think im wrong about that almost because love is a human made word, if that person thinks it'll love thats all that mater. but again, it'll very hard to fall in love with anybody online.
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