awwww...i understand your pain alisha!
i come from a pretty traditional korean family, and as a girl...i'm expected to cater to my father and do all the
household things...but i've always been resistant to that and am a spoiled brat, so i got away from having to do a
lot of the household work. but my gramms never fails to mention that i'm so "undomesticated" and
can't even cook that i'll never get a husband....lol!! like i care, i want a husband who can cook and take
care of me anyways!
but now that i'm older and see how hard my gramms and dad works everyday...while i'm back in school and not
earning much money...i think the least i can do is help out around the house...ie mopping, vacuuming, laundry, dishes
(cuz i can't cook), taking out the trash, etc. now i feel grateful that they're not charging me
"rent" for still staying at home, and they don't expect anything from me financially, which is a god send
for me since i'm a poor student once again.
and perhaps your parents have very high expectations of you, and want you to have experience in both worlds...both
domestically and in other areas of your life. often times because parents think so highly of their child, they expect
him/her to do so much without realizing that they're also stressing out their kid at the same time. personally, if
i didn't think much of someone, i wouldn't expect much from that person and wouldn't ask them to do much,
either. but your siblings should definitely be helping you out...otherwise that's just not a fair situation for
you and you gotta say something to them and your parents!
Quote by EternalParadoxHey I'm an only child that's done lots of
housework. Though I so often wish I had a little brother and a little sister, just so I can boss them to help me each
other against the tyranny of my parents. ;) lol jk jk
Though I do wish I had siblings.
i second that...i wish i had siblings to help me out... XD